People lose interest in their relationship simply because the love they once had has faded away. Although something must have led to this loss of interest, the truth remains that most partners find it hard to tell their companion that they are no longer interested in their relationship, hence, living in pretense and wasting each other time. It’s however, much better when you muster courage and state your mind other than playing hide and seek.
Obviously, It’s not an easy thing to do most especially when you aim to leave the relationship without hurting your partner, but I can assure you that they are easy-going ways you can follow to archive this. Below are 5 approaches to follow.
1. Invite her to a quiet place: Such heartbreaking news shouldn’t be broken to her in a very noisy or busy place so that she won’t feel ashamed of herself. You should disclose it to her in a quiet area where there can be effective communication.
2. Explain to her how things have changed: Instead of being harsh with your words you just have to calmly explain your reasons, how she doesn’t suit your taste, or how you see no bright future with her.
3. Use neutral statements that don’t assign blame to either of you: It’s of importance that you shouldn’t have any intention of apportioning blames on her, that is telling her how she never contributed to the success of the relationship. That won’t be necessary at this time because you have to make it patently clear that it’s nothing either of you could have helped.
4. Give her space: When you feel like your emotions will betray you while telling her your mind, you can then try giving her some space and later send her a friendly message stating how you just need to pathways with her.
5. Never give her fake hope: What hurts more is when you make fake promises just to make her feel alright. You don’t need to give her such assurances because it will only cause more harm when you end up leaving her without fulfilling any of them.