DEAR NIGERIA LADIES! DO YOU KNOW?
1. FUNMI FALANA: A STRONG AND RENOWNED FEMINIST, HAPPILY MARRIED TO A LAWYER, MOTHER OF FALZ d BADT GUY…SHE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER 30YEARS
2. CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE: A FEMINIST, GREAT WRITER, AND A PROUD AND HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN SINCE 2009….
3. AISHA YUSUF: A STRONG VOICE FOR WOMEN’S LIBERATION, A FEMINIST AND A HUMBLE, DEDICATED AND RESPECTFUL WIFE, SHE IS MARRIED SINCE 1996(OVER 20YEARS) AND STILL HAPPILY MARRIED.
4. NICKI MINAJ : A STRONG AND WELL KNOWN FEMINIST, LEFT EVERYTHING BEHIND INCLUDING HER CARRIER TO RAISE A HOME…SHE HAS BEEN MARRIED SINCE 2019, MARRIAGE IS YOUNG BUT STAYED HUMBLE TO HER HUSBAND “PETTY” .
THOSE ARE FEW SUCCESSFUL FEMINISTS I PICKED OUT, THEY HAVE REDEFINED FEMINISM, NOT AS A TOO TO FIGHT YOUR HUSBAND OR BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE BUT TO STAY LOYAL TO HIM AS YOU CHANGE THE WORLD, ALL THESE NAMES I MENTIONED WERE ALREADY SUCCESSFUL EXCEPT AISHA YUSUF BEFORE MEETING THEIR HUSBANDS, THEY ALL HAD A NAME YET DID NOT, ALLOW IT GET INTO THEM….. FEMINISM IS NOT MISCREANTISM, VICIOUSISM NOR NEFARIOUSISM
FEMINISM IS NOT ABOUT DISRESPECTING YOUR HUSBAND OR TRYING TO SHOW EQUALITY….. FEMINISM IS DOING THE RIGHT THING AND MAKING YOUR HUSBAND BELIEVE IN YOU, RELY ON YOU, VALUE YOUR INTELLIGENCE, SMARTNESS AND WISDOM…BE A FEMINIST WITH A LOUD AND USEFUL VOICE NOT A VIOLENT VOICE…… FUNMI FALANA, THE WIFE OF FEMI FALANA AND MOTHER OF FALZ THE BADT GUY IS A RENOWNED FEMINIST WHO HAS OVER THE YEARS STAYED BY THE HUSBAND AND FOUGHT SIDE BY SIDE WITH THE HUSBAND….SHE STAYED TO BUILD A HEALTHY FAMILY….YOU CAN TELL FROM THE BEHAVIOR OF THEIR SON FALZ…. DON’T THINK FEMINISM IS ALL ABOUT FIGHTING YOUR HUSBAND….. IT’S ABOUT STAYING WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND FIGHTING SIDE BY SIDE WITH HIM TO RAISE A GOOD HOME AND SOCIETY….BE A BEACON OF HOPE TO THE YOUNGER GENERATIONS….TEACH THEM TO BE STRONG NOT TO BE VICIOUS…..TELL THE YOUNGER GENERATIONS THE TRUTH NOT FALSEHOODS……TELL THEM YOU ARE NOT HAPPY AFTER YOU LEFT HIM INSTEAD OF PRETENDING TO BE A PROUD SINGLE MOTHER….. LET THEM KNOW THAT DOGS DOES NOT PREFER BONE TO MEAT AS WE WERE TOLD, IT’S BECAUSE THE MEAT IS NOT ALWAYS AVAILABLE.
TEACH THEM YOUNG WHAT YOU ACTUALLY LEARNT LATE AFTER YOUR MISTAKE…
STOP THE LIES OF BEING HAPPY AS A SINGLE PARENT …TEACH THE YOUNGER GENERATIONS HOW TO MAKE UP NOT BREAKUP…
TELL THEM THE SAD TRUTH AND REALITY YOU FACE BEHIND SCENE NOT THE SWEET LIES YOU PORTRAY OR TELL ON MEDIA….
THE ONLY SINGLE PARENT ON PLANET EARTH IS THE ONE WHO WAS INVOLVED IN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE, THOSE WHO LEFT BECAUSE HE CHEATS, MOSTLY END UP BEING SIDE CHECKS TO CHEATERS, SAD TO IMAGINE HOW A LANDLADY HAPPILY BECAME A TENANT….
MY NAME IS COMRADE PROMISELAND, AN ADVOCATE FOR WOMEN’S LIBERATION, A PROTECTOR OF THE GIRL CHILD AND A COMRADE AGAINST THE SPREAD OF THE “PROUD SINGLE MOTHER PANDEMIC.