Contrary to the popular belief that attributes men’s hunger for sex as selfish, men look at sex as a path to reach mutual satisfaction, render pleasure and thrill to their partner and improve as a lover.
However, the straight and crisp answer to “how important is sex for a man” is that sex is one of the most crucial reasons why men want to be in a relationship in the first place.
Here are six things ladies needs to understand why men like sex
Just Because It’s not a Priority to YOU, Doesn’t Mean It Is not to Him
Ladies, if sex is an afterthought for you and not at the top of your priority list, for him it probably is. Just like you need him to communicate and be engaged and connected to you, he needs you to make love with him. Connection— this is one of the reasons why men like sex.
It’s Not Just About the Physical for Him
He wants to be wanted too and sex keeps him emotionally connected to you. Believe it or not, having sex with you gives him feelings of confidence beyond the bedroom. Sexual desire and the act itself are the releases that he needs to RECHARGE.
Stop Making Excuses and Just Go Through the Motions
Finding every reason not to have sex, having a headache every night, or creating an atmosphere that subliminally tells your partner you are not interested, is hurtful too.
Sneaking into bed before he even has a chance to make it in the room is a signal to him that you aren’t interested… AGAIN.
He Gets Tired Too
Just like you work, he works; so you being tired all of the time can’t be the consistent reason to deny your man intimacy. The thing about sex is that, just like any other activity, the hardest part is just getting started and then momentum takes over.
In addition to literally being tired, he also gets tired figuratively. This means that the more he is rejected, the less he will try. And when he stops trying, Suddenly he gets really frustrated and you start having a household full of sexual frustration and it’s communicated through passive-aggressiveness.
Men like to be places where they are wanted and desired so think about the last time you made him feel that way. If it’s been a while, you may want to do something about it.
Other Women Will Pick Up on the Vulnerability
Many times when he is feeling rejected or not affirmed at home, he will go out of his way to get that affirmation elsewhere.
He might not even sleep with the woman, but just the fact that she finds him desirable will be intriguing and desirable for him.
Note for men: This isn’t an excuse to go and step out on your woman, because there are many other solutions to prevent things from getting to this level.
Communicate
Communicate with your man the reason why you have refused to have sex with him. Maybe he is not satisfying you in bed. Not letting him know can cause more harm than good.