It looks like the dating scene is more filled with girls; than real women. If you have been wondering about the reasons behind past relationship failures, the answer may lie in the fact that you have not yet, found a woman. However, some men do begin to experience enough satisfaction with their relationships because they are dating grown-ups. It is not actually about age, but more about behaviours. Here are 10 signs you are dating a woman, not a girl
10. Doesn’t Make You Pay On Every Date-Women are financially independent and possess enough self-respect to do what is right, share the bill! It is a girl’s habit to get ‘help’ from her boyfriend, whenever she thinks is needed. They think, doing that is smart which in reality is not. Women do not have such problems where they know how to pay proper respect to the man she likes. It is a major difference between a girl and a woman; try to figure it out with your girlfriend and you will realize if she is the “one” or not.
9. She Is Not Trendy – Women develop their own sense of style and personality which may not have to reflect the modern trend. If your girlfriend is constantly changing her looks and activities, taking suggestions from the pop culture all the time, you are dating a girl. Their lives revolve too much around outside influences where they have not learned much about their own selves. However, a mature woman knows herself well enough to not go under such trendy impressions. Woman have their own hobbies and passion, they do not need confirmation from others.
8. No More Facebook! – Status updates, check-ins, selfies, and so forth are all plays of the imbeciles if you expect your woman to do all that. Women do not care about Facebook, they have their own lives in the real world outside. Women use Facebook when only it is needed, for recreation, perhaps… unlike young girls whose daily activities are consumed with cyber impulses.
7. Women Read, Girls Don’t If you find a girlfriend who no longer talks about her favourite TV characters; she is probably reading books. This means she is a woman which can be confirmed more when she actively engages you in the conversation about the latest book she read. This is far more interesting than talking about junk TV programs that carry no intellectual values. This does not mean that women don’t watch TV, they do. But they will watch the good stuff, the ones that are interesting, not childish.
6. More Wisdom – Women have all the necessary knowledge of how the world functions. Girls are mainly concerned about the ‘impression’ side of their lives whereas women are not self-centered. They like to contribute things and think logically to get involved with activities that are important and not fashionable. Real women know more about how global affairs are going on and have their individual opinion on such matters. Girls do not have a clue about what it is.
5. She Just Wants Love-Girls usually live in a “show-off” reality. For this reason, everything they think they own is a matter of impression, love too. Women would love you the way it is needed to be done without expecting anything from you. She will teach you while also learning from you, not dwelling entirely on ego. When this happens, you will naturally start valuing her more, helping you to discover yourself more in life’s journey.
4. She Is Independent – Women are independent, unlike girls who need guidance or permission for almost everything they do. Dating such girls can be a pain since a lot you would have wanted may not be achieved so easily. Women are independent and make their own decision and so things are far easier for a man dating a woman who can think for herself. Such relationships are full of fun and excitement!
3. Life Experience-Girls do not hold enough life experience or else they would become a woman. Women have seen varied aspects of life to be able to stand up for themselves and do the right things. This is a big problem for those who have not seen the world in realistic terms. If your girlfriend is giving you valuable advice that is helping you a lot; you are dating a woman.
2. Big Girls Don’t Lie-Lying and cheating are common acts by girls but not women. If your partner is mature, she will think more about the ethical aspect of everything. This is going to help her stay loyal to you with no insecurities to hide.
1. Talks About The Future-Women would talk and plan rational outcomes for the future, unlike girls who would just gossip about past events. Dating a girl would mean you will know about all her past boyfriends and what they did. This is not the case for a woman who would talk more about you than her and try to help you more than her. But, never forget you must do the same with your girlfriend who is a grown-up woman. Be a Man!