Embattled young man seeks advice over his relationship with a lady who does nothing at home but watches movies all day.
According to the narration of a young man who sought helo through a relationship adviser, his fiancee whom he plans to get married to in some months is pregnant with his child.
Unfortunately, the relationship causes the man a sour heart as a result of the lady’s inability to take care of the home despite receiving N100K monthly as a stay home woman.
Read the full narration below …
“Good evening, I wanna be kept anonymous. PIs if u are reading this I need your help cos the time now is 9 55pm Nigeria time. I am engaged to a lady I met here on Twitter after two months relationship.
Now we have been together for 9 months. And we both know our various family. We set our wedding to be September after I had already done my introduction. But I am regretting every steps I took to getting this far. I own a company .
I close 6 get home 7 30. I and my finance live together. Her dirty and unapologetic manner is killing me from inside out and each time I confront her with my angry state she accuses me of transgressions from my day, which isn’t through.
She’s 2 months pregnant gone. I could have forgiven her for all these if maybe it wasn’t like that before we got this far. The only reason I am bringing this here is because I have no friends and I can’t tell my family. Honestly I love her so so so much and I swear it.
I take care of her. I pay her 100k monthly. This doesn’t have to do with that fact that she doesn’t work. She’s home when I leave the house in the morning. She doesn’t make my food before I leave I don’t meet dinner when I come home.
She has never been to the market not for ones is either I go alone come back and cook or she goes with me. She makes only indomie and egg sauce and yam. I cook the stew all soups rice. I come back home meets her pant in my bathroom unwashed when I nag about it she tags it a bad day.
I come back her eyes is glued on TV. The next minute I drop my car keys wash my hands and cook the food for two. If I try to complain she says I am being too bossy.
God I don’t wanna have child and not watch him or her grow more reason i am letting herlItay and not calling the marriage off. Yesterday I made jellof rice and chicken and got back to see it spoil she threw it away without washing the pots, today I made beans as at 6am.
Now I am back home to meet it bad again. I am fuming as I write this but I haven’t reacted yet. And she hasn’t apologized but she’s glued on Netflix TV. I wash her clothes and mine every Sunday, the toilet we both use I wash it.
She does not clean the house unless I have to call from work and say babe pls clean the house is dirty. I can’t say alot but I am confused because all these were happening before she took in.
I don’t wanna call the marriage off, we have spoken about this many times, I have used low hard and harsh tune yet no solution. Considering the kind of sisters and how neat they all are and my kind of mother. Am worried that I making a big mistake.
I wanted my kid sis to come she refused saying until she’s ready to accommodate her. I needed her to watch my sister do things her way and she’s her properly she was trained. I am so bothered. I never for ones hit her and would never. Help a confused brother. I hope she does read this…”